It's nap time and I am blogging to you from poolside, Costa Rica. That's right, this crazy play-at-home momma took it on the road (rather to the sky) and 8 mildly-short hours later my family and I were in the dead center of Costa Rica!
W is 3 and R is 2. We aren't even able to call them halves yet. While gearing up for this trip I was cautioned and scared away from my toddlers joining me on such a bold adventure. Everyone warned that it would be too far outside of their natural comfort zone. What would the kids eat (it turns out chicken and rice is a favorite)? How would they communicate (they're learning an average of 3 Spanish words a day)? Wouldn't they feel out of place? Well let me assure you that the answer is a resounding, no! These two couldn't fit in more if they were locals. And it's not because they speak Spanish fluently, they speak a handful of words. And it's not because Costa Rica mimics the United States, it most definitely does not. It's because cultured children, are diverse children, are thriving children.
Just 12 hours into our trip R rolled out of bed smacking her lip on the nightstand. She needed her first ever sutures (3) from a complete stranger, who did not speak her language. She handled it like a champion. Mommy was definitely the more phased of the two. I have never been so proud. With very few tears, many smiles and hugs we took the sutures and moved on.
We have been using this experience to adventure, play and learn. My children are using the traditional greetings and courtesies in Spanish. They're making new friends. They are learning new games and playing with local toys. They are singing new songs and visiting new climates. I would say that they are breaking out of their shell but after watching how well they have adapted to this experience I'm not sure they ever had one to begin with.
In my family we communicate incessantly. They both know that at some point we will return home. But for the time that we are here they are thriving and enjoying every second. What I once thought would be a challenge for them ended up being an eye-opener for me. We never know what our Littles are capable of until we open the door for them.
My challenge to you is to try a new adventure with your Little this week. It can be in your backyard or an hour away. Seek out something different and be amazed as your Littles thrive.
I am a retired veteran turned play at home mom. I have a two-year-old daughter, a three-year-old son and a 10-year-old stepson that I am honored to mommy every day. I look forward to sharing our play at home experiences and learning from you and yours!
Ariel Sahota
Fusion Contributor